By Flo Rence - August 27, 2025
Understanding Gaslighting in RelationshipsGaslighting is a form of emotional abuse designed to make you question your perception, memory, and judgment. It often begins subtly, with small comments or actions that seem insignificant at first. Over time, these patterns grow, leaving you confused, anxious, and unsure of your reality.A partner may deny things they said or did, insist you are overreacting, or suggest that your feelings are unreasonable. You might leave conversations feeling guilty or questioning whether your memory is correct. Gaslighting doesn’t just damage your relationship with your partner, it chips away at your confidence, your sense of reality, and ...
By Flo Rence - August 26, 2025
In healthy relationships, love includes mutual care and shared effort. But sometimes, love quietly turns into over giving. You say yes to keep things calm. You say yes to be supportive, understanding, agreeable. You stop expressing what you really need because it feels easier not to stir conflict.At first, these may feel like harmless sacrifices. You tell yourself it’s normal. That this is just part of being close to someone. But over time, those silent compromises can start to chip away at you.When saying yes begins to feel more like a duty than a choice, it's worth asking whether you're ...
By Flo Rence - August 25, 2025
Exes can disappear suddenly, leaving a void you didn’t anticipate. Ghosting is painful. It triggers confusion, sadness, and even self-doubt. Then one day, out of the blue, they text. Your mind races. Why now? What does it mean? Understanding the psychology behind this can help you respond with clarity and protect your emotional well-being.Why Ghosting HappensGhosting is often a way to avoid confrontation. Some people leave because they feel overwhelmed, fearful, or uncertain about their feelings. They might lack the tools to communicate their emotions maturely. When someone disappears without explanation, it usually reflects their state of mind rather than ...
By Flo Rence - August 20, 2025
Many women believe that loving harder will make him stay. You give more, adjust more, and stay available, hoping he will notice your efforts and return your care. At first, it feels like commitment. But when your energy is always going toward him and little comes back, love begins to feel like running after someone who never slows down for you.Chasing is subtle at first. It looks like sending another text because he hasn’t replied, rearranging your day to fit his plans even when it drains you, or over-explaining your feelings to make sure he understands. You do these things to ...
By Flo Rence - August 19, 2025
Breakups can feel like the ground has been pulled out from under you. One moment you’re sharing memories, laughter, and love, and the next you’re scrolling through your feed only to see your ex looking like they are on top of the world. They seem to have bounced back overnight while you are still trying to catch your breath. Maybe they’re smiling in new pictures, hanging out with friends more often, or already dating someone new. It’s confusing and painful, and it leaves you asking yourself, How can they be so happy when I’m still hurting this much?The truth is that ...
By Flo Rence - August 17, 2025
Relationships often begin with excitement. Every date feels fresh, every conversation feels new, and every touch carries an extra spark. But as time goes on, routines take over. Work hours get longer, chores pile up, and exhaustion pushes date nights to the background. When you do make time, it might always look the same: a quick dinner at your favorite restaurant or a movie on the couch. Familiar, yes, but not exactly thrilling.The truth is, romance doesn’t need a big budget or a dramatic gesture to feel alive again. What it needs most is attention and creativity. A simple evening ...
By Flo Rence - August 16, 2025
Love can feel like a safe home, a thrilling escape, or sometimes, a heavy burden. While most of us hope for stability and trust, not every relationship provides it. Some slowly drain our energy, others confuse us with mixed emotions, and some leave us doubting if love should really feel this hard.Recognizing when love begins to take more than it gives is not easy. The signs are often subtle at first. Over time, you might find yourself wondering whether the relationship helps you grow or slowly pulls you away from who you are.Let’s explore the four kinds of relationships that ...
By Flo Rence - August 15, 2025
Men do not lose interest in women overnight. It usually happens after a series of repeated behaviors that cause emotional discomfort or frustration. These behaviors act as triggers. Over time, the build-up of these triggers weakens attraction and reduces emotional connection.When you understand what behaviors trigger men, you have a better chance of avoiding unnecessary conflict and building a stronger bond. This is not about walking on eggshells. It is about improving communication and showing mutual respect.1. Constant CriticismCriticism is one of the most common triggers for men. While feedback is important, constant criticism feels like rejection of who they ...
By Flo Rence - August 9, 2025
Have you been feeling like something is off with your partner but can’t quite pinpoint it? Maybe your conversations have gotten shorter, or you don’t share as much as before. Maybe you feel lonely even when you are together. This feeling is real and is called emotional disconnection. It quietly damages relationships over time. The good news is you can catch it early and start making changes.Let’s explore the signs that emotional distance is creeping in. Knowing these will help you act before it becomes a bigger problem.When Communication and Support Start to FadeOne of the first signs is when ...
By Flo Rence - August 7, 2025
Online dating is everywhere now. With so many apps and sites out there, meeting someone new is just a few clicks away. For some, it works great. For others, not so much. So how do you know if it’s for you? Let’s look at the pros and cons.The Benefits of Online DatingOne big plus is access. You get to meet people you’d probably never run into in real life. Whether they live in another city or share a niche interest, they’re just a swipe or message away. You can also filter for what matters to you. Age, hobbies, values, goals, whatever ...