When Love Starts to Feel Like ObligationIn healthy relationships, love includes mutual care and shared effort. But sometimes, love quietly turns into over giving. You say yes to keep things calm. You say yes to be supportive, understanding, agreeable. You stop expressing what you really need because it feels easier not to stir conflict.At first, these may feel like harmless sacrifices. You tell yourself it’s normal. That this is just part of being close to someone. But over time, those silent compromises can start to chip away at you.When saying yes begins to feel more like a duty than a ...

Online dating is everywhere now. With so many apps and sites out there, meeting someone new is just a few clicks away. For some, it works great. For others, not so much. So how do you know if it’s for you? Let’s look at the pros and cons.The Benefits of Online DatingOne big plus is access. You get to meet people you’d probably never run into in real life. Whether they live in another city or share a niche interest, they’re just a swipe or message away. You can also filter for what matters to you. Age, hobbies, values, goals, whatever ...

How to Break Up with a Narcissistic BoyfriendEnding a relationship with a narcissistic partner is one of the most difficult decisions you may ever make. You are not just walking away from a person, you are stepping out of a dynamic built on control, confusion, and emotional manipulation. Narcissists know how to draw you back in, often using affection or guilt when they feel you slipping away. If you’re reading this, chances are you’ve reached a turning point where staying no longer feels safe or sustainable. That alone speaks to your strength. The steps ahead won’t be easy, but they ...

Sometimes love makes you feel alive and connected. Other times, it slowly pulls you away from who you are without you even noticing. It’s not always dramatic. It can start with small things that seem harmless at first. You might stop hanging out with your friends, let go of hobbies you used to enjoy, or begin agreeing with things you once questioned, just to keep things easy, to avoid tension, or to hold on to the relationship.When Support Turns Into Self-SilencingIt often feels like you're just being supportive, just compromising. And sometimes you are. But when it becomes a pattern, ...

It’s not easy to talk about.And most people don’t, not out loud, anyway.You’re physically close to someone. Maybe you even share a bed, a history, or an unspoken routine. But afterward, when the room goes quiet and you're left alone with your thoughts, something doesn’t feel right. You feel more disconnected than before. You wonder, Why do I feel this way if we just shared something so intimate?The truth is, many people don’t realize that sex and intimacy aren’t the same thing. They can happen together, but they don’t always. And when there’s no emotional closeness behind the physical act, sex ...

Relationships are a core part of life. They give us love, comfort, and the feeling of belonging. But while many relationships lift us up, some slowly tear us down. A healthy relationship feels safe. It is built on mutual respect, honest communication, and trust. You feel supported, accepted, and free to be yourself. On the other hand, an unhealthy relationship chips away at your peace. It often shifts into a pattern of control or fear rather than care and equality.Why It’s Hard to See the SignsSpotting these red flags is not always easy. Most unhealthy relationships do not start with ...

Yeah, the feeling of getting dumped sucks. There's no question about that. Sometimes, you can go crazy thinking about all the things that went wrong in your relationship.But the bottom of the line is, the reason why your relationship ended is because your boyfriend has lost attraction for you. No, it wasn't because you left your dirty laundry around the house or that it's "him, not you...", it's because the foundation of his attraction for you faded - and it's your fault. There are ways you can "re-attract" your boyfriend (and I'll get to that in a second), but you have ...

If your marriage is 'on the rocks' and you're worried that your spouse is thinking about asking for a divorce, then this article is for you. I'll explain a few signs to look for that indicate your spouse is thinking about divorce, and I'll tell you how to stop it and how to begin repairing your marriage.So, let's dive into the first sign to look for...Sign #1 - Arguing Over Anything & Everything.Yes, it’s no secret that an increase in the frequency and intensity of arguments with your partner are a clear indication that all is not well with your ...

Article by By Brian Robbens Creator of Respark The Romance You met the person who makes your heart sing and your face hurt from smiling......but does that mean they’re a keeper?Many people could make us happy, especially in the short term, but it’s harder to tell if the two of you will be compatible and happy together down the road.Let me clarify upfront that no couple is 100% happy all of the time, because we all have small differences and will occasionally get on each other’s nerves. The important thing is that you’re in a relationship that makes you satisfied and happy ...